Starting secondary school can be stressful for children and parents
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Switching from primary to secondary school can be a stressful time for young people. One minute, they are the oldest and most settled in the school; the next, they are the youngest, the smallest and the most at unease.
Then there are all the other changes to get used to, for example, having multiple teachers, locating the correct classrooms, increased academic pressure, and new students to get to know and socialise with. All of this, alongside dealing with going through puberty and changing hormones.
Starting senior school is a big change for parents too
This is a big change for parents too, as they adapt to being less protective and giving their growing child more freedom and responsibility. This can come with its own stresses as the realisation that they are not ‘your baby’ anymore starts to bite. Reassure yourself that every parent feels this way, and it is just part of the transition.
When it comes to helping children with their stresses, parents tend to agree that one of the best things you can do is be honest about what they should expect, even the more challenging parts. They may have older siblings or friends who have painted a far worse picture, and a reality check may be just what is required. Explain some of the key things that are going to change, and how everyone stresses about getting lost, how easily they will make new friends, and if the work is going to be too hard.
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